Whether erotic or not, massage is an effective tool in combating stress, anxiety and improving your overall health. Tantric massage, however, stands out among the rest due to its gentle nature and holistic approach that doesn’t separate your sexuality from the rest of your wellbeing. In this article, we’ll teach you a few tricks that will, hopefully, help you make the most of your tantric experience.
Tantra massage is sought-after not only for its orgasmic qualities
This oriental procedure is well known and loved precisely because of the way it treats human sexuality – not as worth more or less, but as one of the pillars of your wellbeing. The slow, prolonged movements and gentle stimulating touches help in increasing your arousal and in building it up to an intensive climax. The orgasm is not an end in itself, however, but a tool whose ultimate purpose is to restore your inner balance. The power of pleasure is bound and utilised for remedying purposes, the sexual energy is harnessed and controlled without being given free rein, and then released at the right time. Tantra teaches not only pleasure, but also balance and self-restraint. Among the many advantages you can draw from it are:
- An increase in libidinal energy
- Stress relief
- Improved blood flow & immune system
- Help in combating migraines
- Improved sleep
- Overall mental balance and self-discipline
So, how to make your experience even better than that?
There are multiple ways to increase the immediate enjoyment from this exquisite oriental rubdown, as well as making the most of its long-term positive effects. These are, just some of them – there’s no definitive list and the possibilities to make the most of your tantric experience are basically countless.
1. The correct breathing is the key
As you might know already (or will learn soon enough), really focusing on your breathing is what makes this massage work the way it does. It helps in maintaining concentration and retaining an inner balance and mental control. The goal is not to be swept away by your pleasure and arousal, but to master it, postpone it, build it up – and a correct breathing technique can help exactly with that. You will be taught how to breathe correctly by your masseuse, but it’s up to you to follow through.
2. Maintain a relaxing atmosphere
A suggestive surrounding and a good setting helps to improve every experience, and this is doubly true for the tantra. Proper decorations, flowers, rose petals, the smell of aromatic oil and scented candles in the air and last but not least a proper ambient music will do wonders in increasing your enjoyment.
3. Lose yourself in the moment
Stay entirely in the present moment. Concentrate solely on your breathing and whatever your body feels right now. Don’t worry about the future or the past – there should be only now – in short, mindfulness. You should learn this skill and implement it even outside of the context of your massage – mindfulness can transform your life for the better.
4. Drink after you’re done
Every massage, whether tantric or not, helps to kickstart your organism and to increase the blood flow. As a side effect of this, your cells will work harder in disposing of toxins, but also consume water at a faster rate, so it’s important to replenish it!
For a tantric massage to really have a long lasting impact on your life, it’s advised to undergo it more often. Make it regular, make it count, and make its benefits stack on top of another.
Hopefully you’ve found this advice useful and learned something new about tantra, its benefits and possibilities to make it better. It’s just a tip of the iceberg though, and we’ll probably come back to this topic in the future.
Are you acquainted with tantric massages yourselves? Which impact did they have on you? And which methods work for you in terms of increasing their effectiveness? Share your experience with others in the comments!